At SonderLife, we envision a world where meaningful connections are accessible to everyone, free from barriers like subscriptions or hidden fees. Our goal is to create a platform driven entirely by the voices of our users, fostering a space where authenticity thrives, and relationships grow naturally.

Our mission is to redefine how people connect by prioritizing user feedback and crafting features that reflect real needs and desires. We’re committed to building a transparent, inclusive platform that empowers individuals to form genuine relationships—always free, always focused on you. At SonderLife, we’re not just listening—we’re evolving together.

From our Founder & CEO

"I started SonderLife because of my passion for making meaningful relationships. In life, we tend to focus too much on the labeling vs letting things organically change and mutate with understanding that we all are very dynamicly multifacited. Ultimately, for relationships to blossom all parties involved need similar transparent desires. They also need similar core values in order to maintain the relationship. Because of this, we focus on Sternbergs theory of love with questionares for helping people understand what they value and maybe uncover/reconsider some of those values. We believe this supercides surface level commonalities like hobbies & interests.  I also want to help people maintain their relationships  in the future.

As a practicioner of empathy driven value, we make sure our features and decisions are driven by empathy for our users. We care to make something together.

Please give us a chance and let us know how we could do better!"

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